what an odd couple of days.

Kay here,

so after two days i have had i guess you could say success on the whole internet dating thing. although some of the messages are just plain wierd. and some hilarious. some quite nice.

here are some of the more normal ones

hey how are you? and how come you're ona dating site? you def dont look like you need any help finding a fella you're lovely!!!- G

Hello, your profile is interesting and I like it. Hope you dont mind I am older, just want to send a compliment. M ( by older he meant 27, which is fine. my last love interest was 28. yeah i have a thing for older men. he is one of my favourites at the moment. not so strange. )

Hey you ok?
Just came across your profile and I thought I'd drop you a message as you sound like a good person to chat too, as well as being a good looking young lady!
Hopefully we can chat more and maybe even get to know each other a bit
Hope to hear back from you soon

Then we have the ones from wierd older men

hi gwen hope you are well,heres a thought for you.....Imagine there is a bank account that credits your account each morning with £86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day.
Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course?
Each of us has such a bank. It's name is TIME.
Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.
Every night it writes off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to a good purpose.
It carries over no balance. It allows no over draft. Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the remains of the day.
If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours. There is no drawing against "tomorrow."
You must live in the present on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!
The clock is running!! Make the most of today...im a design engineer living in stockport cheshire, you fancy a chat tiger - this guy is 38!!! thats 20 years older than me!

A really beautiful and obviously very intelligent girl!
Like to meet an older generous guy? - This one is 50!! i mean seriously! thats older than my dad! come on! plus what on earth does he mean by generous! serious creep vibes from this one!

THEN! some of the profiles seriously!

this is an sample from this guys profile!

What would you do on an ideal date?
I like to keep things real from the first date, If I think you're fat I'll tell ya. Please excuse my hands, I apologise in advance, they have a one-track mind to squeeze on your behind.

As of right now, i think that internet dating sites are a definate let down ladies. or maybe i'm just trying the wrong ones. who know! had ANYONE out there had any luck on these sites? and if so, why did you join it?

On other news, i Think Cat may be mad at me. No i know she is. It really is all my fault though, so i understand completely. i did let her down. i seem to be doing this a lot recently. if you do read this Cat, i really am sorry.

Also, i got a new job, which means that i might be moving away. and pretty soon, especially as, well especially as things didnt turn out the way i wanted with other things. To be honest, I'm pretty bummed out about it, about a lot of things. but hey, i guess things have to go on.

right i'm off. do comment on things people. if anyone is actually reading this. is this a waste of time?

probably.

kay